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Cass almost chokes on the donut she was snacking on and has to stare at the comm for a bit. She wasn't expecting this. This is such an ordinary question! She's never gotten it from her boys before!! And boy, is she ready because she has a very sure answer to this]
Of course not!! Automatically a thing, I mean. Nothing is "a thing" until you decide you want it to be and explicitly declare it so, Maya!
Whether you can be friends or not depends on how well you guys can talk it out and come to an agreement. I'm not going to say it ALWAYS works out, sadly :( but a date and a kiss isn't like an irreversible chemical reaction. Communication is the key!
See, Maya, a lot of people have expectations for that sort of thing. "You have to date because you kissed" "If that happened it's a big deal" "You have to do this because of that." But you have to remember those are expectations, and someone else is still only someone else!
Is the person you're thinking about right now someone you feel comfortable talking to?
Mm, but if that did happen, it might hurt the other person if you ignore it and act like nothing happened. If you don't want to take it any further right now, or you're not sure how you feel, that's okay. But you should let them know. If you're worried about it, they might be too.
I guess you can say it would be a kindness, for you to do so. For a friend.
Hmmm... well, I can't say I am anywhere close to being like your sister, but I think that's because we have something in common. Can you guess what that is?
No, what I think your sister and I share is that we care about you, Maya, and we want to make sure you get what's best for you. Only you can make your decisions, but when you do I want you to follow your heart, and when you do, I'll support that decision. That's what's most important.
[Cass never had any other intentions, but that confession means a lot to her and she pauses, too, letting that sink in. She doesn't miss the continued usage of the past tense.]
I see. Then you must have so many memories with her. Sisters are like that. And I can see that she was amazing -- she raised such a fantastic young woman right here :)
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what
WHAT
Cass almost chokes on the donut she was snacking on and has to stare at the comm for a bit. She wasn't expecting this. This is such an ordinary question! She's never gotten it from her boys before!! And boy, is she ready because she has a very sure answer to this]
Of course not!! Automatically a thing, I mean. Nothing is "a thing" until you decide you want it to be and explicitly declare it so, Maya!
Whether you can be friends or not depends on how well you guys can talk it out and come to an agreement. I'm not going to say it ALWAYS works out, sadly :( but a date and a kiss isn't like an irreversible chemical reaction. Communication is the key!
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[UGH Maya doesn't want to be having this problem it's weird. This was totally more Mia's game.
...Huh. Is that why she decided to text Cass...? Nah. Nevermind.]
i don't really know if i want anything so it would be cool if it was y'know
not a huge deal
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See, Maya, a lot of people have expectations for that sort of thing. "You have to date because you kissed" "If that happened it's a big deal" "You have to do this because of that." But you have to remember those are expectations, and someone else is still only someone else!
Is the person you're thinking about right now someone you feel comfortable talking to?
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i guess you're right. I've never been into that kinda thing? it's stuff my cousin would be into
so
i dunno
but yeah i guess so? it's just I'd rather nooooooooot
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I guess you can say it would be a kindness, for you to do so. For a friend.
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how did you do that
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i mean i don't think he thinks it's that big of a deal anyway
but you just SOUND REALLY RIGHT
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Hmmm... well, I can't say I am anywhere close to being like your sister, but I think that's because we have something in common. Can you guess what that is?
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[ ...because she'd believe it, like, man, cass, everyone's a lawyer in her world ]
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No, what I think your sister and I share is that we care about you, Maya, and we want to make sure you get what's best for you. Only you can make your decisions, but when you do I want you to follow your heart, and when you do, I'll support that decision. That's what's most important.
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...she isn't even sure how to react for a moment-- when was the last time a woman who wasn't Mia was this kind to her?]
what if my heart wants to wait it out a little
[...ugh.]
like not to ignore stuff or anything just to figure it out! Cos like i said
Im pretty sure it wasnt a big deal
But y'know
Communication and stuff
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Listen to yourself. You have friends who'll listen to your voice, but only you can hear the voice in your own heart.
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thanks ms Cass
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But you're welcome! If you need someone to listen again, you know where to find me. I'm always wishing for your happiness, Maya :)
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you had a sister too?
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younger or older??
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10 years older actually!!
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but she was also
[ Cass won't know how long she's paused before writing this, but-- ]
mia was the one who took care of me since my mom left.
she was amazing
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I see. Then you must have so many memories with her. Sisters are like that. And I can see that she was amazing -- she raised such a fantastic young woman right here :)
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This kind of praise is nice. Really nice.]
you're too flattering!! |ω-o)゚
but she really was the best at like, everything
you're pretty great too though
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My sister was pretty great at everything too. It's pretty inspiring, isn't it?
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